do you want to live with your parents after wedding?
i am already married,and now living with my monther-in-low. though we are different two generations. but there is no problem with us in the usuall life.
actually, many couples do not want to live with their parents after they get married. the only reason should be they want to be free. but when they get child, somehow they want their parents to look after the child,also they want to be free. such a unfair thing.
for the parents, in fact,they want to live with their chidren,anyway they feed their children for years. to live apart is a bit sad for them. but after their sons get wives, parents do not want to make troubles with their daughter-in-low that the son will be more troubled between them. so they choose to live alone.
here, i just want to tell the people when they have to face this problem,if you really want to live alone, it's no problem but remeber to visit your parents offen.but do not let them to look after your child,or you think it's duty to look after your child.
there is no rule saying that parents bring up you and have to bring up your child.how can they take a rest.
if you want to live your parents together, there will be some broblems happen sometims,but just you try your best to do everything well, i think everything should be ok,
as a wife, to deal with your monther-in-low is not so easy,cause you both share one man.to avoid the problems happen, pleas don't be so lazy, or think you are earning so that parents should do everything for you that's wrong and hurt them, it makes they feel they are old and no able to earn,and have to live depend on you.
plese do the house job with your parents together as you can. then i think parents will not let you do all the time, they understand your heart so that they will do everything as return.
as parents, do not think you are eldership so that you can order them to do everthing in your way. perhaps it's ok in the old time. but now it's impossible. change your mind a bit. don't care them too much, it will makes they feel you interfere with their life to much.
here i wish every family has a peaceful and happy life.