To Be A Genuine People
做个真诚的人
Who doesn’t like what is genuine, authentic and original? Being genuine is a trademark of success as this quality boosts self-confidence and primes vision and focus. Genuine people don’t need to fake it or pretend to be what or who they are not as there are no privileges for them to live under such a guise. However being genuine in a world where there is a lot of attention and publicity offered to products, individuals or items which end up betraying our trust makes it hard for us to be genuine. Yet it is worth it. Here is how one can know if they are genuine.
谁不喜欢真诚的,可信的和真实的人呢?真诚是成功的商标,这种品质提高自信和充满前景和焦点。真诚的人不需要欺骗或假装成不是他们的那种人或他们没有特权生活在这样的一个幌子下。然而在这个世界上成为真诚的人,有很多的关注和提供产品、个人或物品的宣传,最终背叛了我们的信任，这很难让我们成为真诚的人。但它是值得的。这是真诚的人才明白的如果他们是一个真诚的人。
1. They protect their self esteem
他们保护他们的自尊
Genuine people are not concerned about external factors that could bruise their esteem. They don’t need validation from their external environment since they are much less defensive about a lot of things. They are instead happy and content with who they are.
真诚的人并不关心那些可能挫伤他们的自尊心的外部因素。他们不需要外部环境的认可,因为他们对很多事情有更少的防守。他们反而是幸福的和满意他们自己是谁。
2. They speak their mind
他们吐露心声
Genuine people are expressive. They are not shy about sharing their thoughts or perspectives about a subject. They understand that their opinions count. It is not as if they are trying to convince others about what they have to say, rather they feel relevant enough to be heard.
真诚的人善于表达。他们不会羞于分享他们对一个主题的想法或观点。他们明白,他们的意见是有价值的。这不像他们试图说服别人对他们说什么,而是他们觉得他们说的跟事情有关
3. They can define their paths
他们明确自己要走的路
They know where they are going. They do not need to be pushed by conventional thoughts or opinions on how to achieve or attain their goals. They can discover the adequate channels to take as they have an internal guide on how to pursue their passions or goals. They can forge an entirely new path in the process of getting to their destination.
他们知道他们要去哪里。他们不需要被传统的想法或意见推动如何去实现或达到自己的目标。他们能发现足够的渠道来指导内心如何追求自己的激情或目标。在这个过程中他们可以建立一个全新的路径到达目的地。
4. They can take responsibility
他们承担责任
They understand that life is a mix of wrongs and right and nothing is perfect. As much as they are able to confront their thoughts, beliefs and behaviors, they know how to identify their faults and accept them if their actions from them hurt others.
他们明白生活夹杂着对与错，没有什么是完美的。他们能够面对他们的想法,信念和行为,他们知道如何识别他们的缺点并接受它们,如果他们的行为伤害到他人。
5. They can offer and take a compliment
他们可以提供和得到赞美
They are able to offer their gratitude and accept one too. They see a compliment for what it is and do not strain such expressions. They do not over-think it or find reasons for not accepting a well displayed form of gratitude. They understand the flow of life and how much they can help in channeling that flow of acceptance and giving.
他们能够提供他们的感激之情和接受别人的感激之情。他们觉得恭维不应是表达事物本来是什么样子的方式。他们不会想太多或者找理由不接受良好的显示形式的感激之情。他们了解生命的流动,他们可以帮助多少通灵,接受和给予。
From:www.lifehack.org
本文由小E编辑Tina Lam整理翻译，转载请注明出处