爱上知己须谨慎
Love Your Best Friend Need More Cautions
我们都曾有过那么一两段时间忽然对一位朋友甚至是知己产生情悻。假如你深陷这种迷恋当中，习惯了和你的这位朋友打情骂俏，而你的朋友对此似乎也不怎么介意，那万事大吉。如果你感觉这就是追逐真爱，那或许在试图对你的好朋友采取下一步行动前，你需要让自己在处理友情和爱情关系方面变得更成熟一些。因为这种情况一旦处理不当，不仅会让你感到极度失望，更会伤害到彼此之前已经建立的非常亲密的友情。
We have all had one time or another where we have had a crush on a friend or even a best friend.If you are caught up in the crush and are enjoying the flirting and your friend doesn't seem to mind, then that is fine. If it is the feel of the chase you love then you might need to mature a bit more in the relationship and love department before you attempt to make a move on your closest friend. This type of situation may lead to massive disappointment for both of you and injure what you have.
如果你正打算向你的知己表明你的心意，但他却从来没有向你传达过任何爱的讯号，那此时你或许需要再多考虑考虑。假如你足够幸运，好朋友和你都有一样的心思，可能这样的选择无论对你对他都是一种可以尝试的机会。可如果在真情表露后，根本得不到他的回应、暖昧或感动，恐怕你的心将跌人低谷。
If you are thinking of disclosing your hearts desire to your best friend and they have never shown you any love signs then you might want to think again. If you are lucky and you know that your best friend feels the same way then this might be an option for you to try, but if there is no reciprocation, flirtation or feelings, then your heart might be in for a let down.
爱情是如此地宝贵，每个人都应给予珍视和尊重。现在，最好的处理方式就是坐下来，先好好地问问自己为什么要发展到下一步。自己回答这几个问题:他会是最适合我的伴侣吗?我们有未来吗?我在我的好友眼里有足够的吸引力吗?我想这么做的真正理由是什么呢?会不会我只是太寂寞了?
Love is such a precious feeling and has to be treasured and respected. It is good to truly sit dawn and think about why you want to take things further. Ask yourself these questions. Would they be a suitable match for me? Is there a future for us? Am I attracted to my best friend sexually? What are my real reasons? Am I afraid to be alone?
有时，还是维持之前最要好的朋友关系更好。一旦你跨越了朋友间的界限，无论结果如何，你们亲密的友谊就会永远改变，无法挽回。即使你能把做过的事，说出的话一力承担，你们中的一个也会因已经流露出的感情得不到预期的回应而伤心欲绝，这终将导致怨恨猜忌并彻底摧毁这段友情。因为好朋友总需要经常在一起，而如果其中一个人有了追求者或者是喜欢上了谁，并终成眷属，那另一个人会怎么想?当感情的付出得不到回报，这种压抑、扭曲的感觉会让人备受煎熬。走出单相思很辛苦，这种病不是那么容易治愈的。这就是为什么在某些友谊中最好保持清醒，不要轻越雷池。
Sometimes it is better to keep a best friend a friend and stay that way. When you cross the line with your best friend, your friendship will be changed forever.Even if you can put what happened or what was said behind you, one of you may end up broken hearted because these feelings brought up were not acknowledged in the end. This can lead to resentment and jealousy in the future and destroy a friendship. Because two friends hang out so much together, the one that is in love or has an attraction begins to see themselves as a couple. This can end up becoming a distorted view and can result in so many painful feelings when the feelings are not returned. Unrequited love is a hard situation to go through and can take a long time to heal from. This is why in some friendships it is best to reconsider before taking the friendship to a new level.
Many people think how wonderful it will be to begin a new love relationship with their best friend. They are around all the time, they trust you, you trust them,their cute enough, they are a good friend, there is no reason not to! But there is something missing though and that is the level of love and passion that happens and sparks between two people when they fall in love. Make sure you really think this one over before making any sudden moves because your choice can result in three different ways. You either are best friends for life, broken hearted, or for the lucky ones; you have your soul mate. This is quite the gamble(6) to take, so think it through before you dump the gun.
很多人都认为如果能和自己的知己开始一段新的恋情将会有多么美妙啊。他们总是在你身边，信任你，你也信任他们，他们够可爱，他们是那么好的朋友……没有理由不选他们当爱人啊!但即便坠人爱河后会迸发出炽热的火花和激情，仍然会失去很多东西。所以在你突然做出任何决定或行动前请务必考虑到这点，因为你的不同选择会直接导致三种完全不同的结果:要么你们是生活中最好的朋友，要么彻底破裂，要么是那足够幸运的一对;你现在还有知己，拿这个来赌一把实在有点太大了，所以在你迈出下一步前请三思而行!