Common Mistakes Ex-Spouses Make When They Begin Dating
前配偶常犯的错误当他们开始约会时
1. Don’t be oblivious to the world around you.
不要忘记你周围的世界。
You might think getting informed about local, national, or international affairs of the day and what’s going on in the world of sports have nothing to do with your romantic life, but the truth is: they do.
你可能会认为得到当地，国家，或国际事务任命的通知的一天在体育究竟发生了什么事与你的感情生活无关，但事实是：有关。
2. Don’t talk about your ex spouse.
不要谈论你的前配偶。
An episode of the old TV series Eight is Enough featured the oldest son attempting to date after divorce.
旧电视连续剧八集的一个插曲是够特色对于长子试图离婚后开始约会。
3. Don’t just talk about yourself.
不要只谈论自己。
Since the point of dating is to get to know each other, many people erroneously think they should talk about themselves, so the other person gets to know them.
由于约会的一点是要了解对方，很多人错误地认为他们应该谈论自己，所以其他人认识他们。
They certainly will learn about you. They will “learn,” correctly or otherwise, that you are “I” centered.
他们当然会了解你。他们将“学习，”正确或以其他方式，你是以“我”为中心。
4. Don’t just talk about your children.
不要只是谈论你的孩子
Again, the point of dating is to get to know each other, not each other’s children.
此外，约会的一点是要了解对方，而不是对方的孩子。
5. Don’t wear your wedding ring on the date.
约会时不要戴结婚戒指。
If you are thinking that this should go without saying, I agree. However, I know a man who wore his wedding ring on his date. She is the one who told him to take it off.
如果你以为这应该不用说，我同意。但是，我知道一个在约会时戴结婚戒指戴的人。她想告诉他取下来。
6. Don’t bring your children on your date.
约会时不要带你的孩子。
I know a woman who did this too. People are busier than they used to be. Struggling to spend time with your children, spend time with your date(s), and work in or out of the home is time-consuming.
我也知道这样做的一个女人。人们比他们曾经更忙。奋力花时间与你的孩子一起，花时间与你一起约会（s）和工作或离开家庭是浪费时间的。