15 Things You Should Never Say to a New Mom
永远不要向一个新妈妈说的15件事
New moms worry about a lot of things: whether they’re nursing properly, what they can do to help their newborn avoid SIDS, why their baby’s not sleeping on a regular schedule yet.
新妈妈们担心很多事情:他们是否正确护理,他们可以做些什么来帮助他们的新生儿避免婴儿猝死综合症,为什么他们的婴儿没有定期睡觉。
1.“She looks nothing like you.”
“她看起来一点也不像你。”
2.“My baby started sleeping through the night at three months.”
“我的孩子三个月开始到晚上就睡觉。”
3.“Can I hold him?” No, stranger, you can’t.
“我可以把他吗?“不,陌生人,你不可以。
4.Any sort of comment about how huge or tiny the baby is. The baby is the perfect size, actually!
任何形式的评论关于大或小婴儿。婴儿是完美的尺寸,真的!
5.“Breastfeeding came to me so easily.”
“母乳喂养轻易地来找我。”
6.“You should let the baby cry it out at night.”
“你应该让宝宝晚上哭出来。”
7.“Breast is best.” Some moms just can’t make breastfeeding work—there’s no need to give them a guilt trip about it.
“母乳是最好的。“一些妈妈不能让母乳喂养这里不需要给他们一个内疚的旅行。
8.“I fit into my pre-pregnancy jeans in three weeks.”
“我三个星期适应怀孕前牛仔裤。”
9.“I could never go back to work. I’d miss my baby too much.” Ouch. Pretty sure every mother misses her baby while at work.
“我不会回去工作。我太想念我的宝贝。“哎哟。确定每一个母亲想念她的孩子在工作时。
10.“Don’t worry—I’m not contagious anymore.”
“别担心我不会传染的了。”
11.“You look exhausted. Are you getting any sleep?”
“你看起来筋疲力尽。你睡觉了吗?”
12.“Look at that cone head!”
“看那锥头!”
13.“I guess she’s just a fussy baby.”
“我猜她只是一个挑剔的婴儿。”
14.“My baby never cried.” Pretty sure all babies cry…
“我的孩子永远不会哭了。“确信所有的婴儿哭…
15.“Give him to me. I’ll get him to stop crying.” Um, did Mom ask for your help?
“把他给我。我让他停止哭泣。“嗯,妈妈要求你的帮助了吗?