7 Small Things Parents Should Do To Their Children Every Day To Make Them Feel Loved
7件父母应该每天都做给他们的孩子让他们感到被爱的小事情
Can you remember what made you feel loved as a kid? Think about it. Maybe you remember having a great time with your parents, holidays, being helped with homework or just telling them a few secrets. As a parent now, are you making the effort to make your kids feel loved? Very often, it is the small things that count. Here are 15 ways to make your kids feel loved. When you become grandparents, you will be touched that they still remember them.
你还记得小时候让你觉得被爱的是什么吗?想一下。也许你记得你有一个与你的父母共度的好时光,假期,帮助你做功课或只是告诉他们一些秘密。现在作为一个家长,你在努力让你的孩子感受到爱吗?通常,这些小事可以数得清。这里有15种方法让你的孩子感到被爱。当你成为爷爷奶奶时,你会感动,他们仍然记得。
1. Turn off your smartphone.
关掉你的手机
When you get home or your kids get back from school, turn off your phone and give them your full attention at least for the first half hour or so. The kids love this because they know you are not going to be distracted by texts as they tell you what happened at school. The Swedish government did a poll and discovered that 33% of kids complained that their parents were always on their smartphones.
当你回家或者你的孩子从学校回来,关掉你的手机,给他们你的全部精力至少半小时左右。孩子们喜欢这个,因为他们知道你不会分心当他们告诉你在学校发生了什么事时。瑞典政府做了一个调查,发现33%的孩子们抱怨说,他们的父母总是在看他们的智能手机。
2. Turn off the TV and all gadgets at mealtimes.
在进餐时间关掉电视
Not much fun when kids have to compete with TV commercials or everybody texting away. Mealtimes are rare moments to enjoy each other’s company. There are enormous advantages for kids. They eat more healthily as it is not rushed. They also enjoy the companionship of their parents and they are much less likely to have an eating disorder later on.
当孩子们与电视广告竞争或每个人都发短信时没有多少乐趣。用餐时间是罕见的享受彼此陪伴的时刻。对孩子有巨大的优势。他们吃得更健康,因为不匆忙。他们还享受父母的陪伴,他们不太
可能会饮食失调。
3. Make bedtime a precious moment.
睡前有一个珍贵的时刻。
With younger kids, they will always treasure those moments when you read them a story as they drift happily into sleep. It is enormously reassuring and it is a unique bonding experience for parents and kids. The extra bonus is that this also helps your child’s brain development.
对年幼的孩子,他们将永远珍惜当你读一个故事作为他们愉快地进入梦乡的那些时刻。它是非常可靠的,它是一个独特的父母和孩子之间的黏合经验。额外的好处,这也有助于你孩子的大脑发育。
4. Show physical affection.
给身体感情。
Countless studies show that kids thrive on warmth and affection. The child feels loved and will have a greater self-esteem. There is no need to go overboard but a kiss or a hug once a day will do you both a lot of good. It lessens the chances of your kids becoming aggressive, anti-social and having other behavioral problems. While adolescents might be embarrassed at the physical affection, there should always be words of support and empathy to take its place.
无数的研究表明,孩子们喜欢温暖和感情。孩子感觉爱将会有一个更多的自尊。没有必要走极端,但是每天一个吻或者一个拥抱将会给你许多好处。它降低了你的孩子变得有攻击性的机会,反社会和其他行为问题。虽然青少年在身体感情可能是不好意思,凡事总有支持和同情的话取而代之。
5. Spend quality time with each child.
花高质量时间陪每个孩子。
It is wonderful when a parent or both parents can spend quality time on a one-on-one basis with their kids. This is great because they feel special and their brothers and sisters are not around. It can be anything from playing sports, cooking, or helping with chores. There is no better way of showing your kids that you really love and cherish them.
这是美妙的时刻当父母或父母双方都可以花时间与他们的孩子在一对一的陪伴。这是极好的,因为他们觉得特别，他们的兄弟姐妹不在。它可以是任何东西,体育运动,烹饪,或者帮助做家务。没有更好的方式让你的孩子知道,你真的爱和珍惜他们。
6. Discipline them with love and affection.
爱和情感训练他们。
There are still parents who believe that beating a kid is probably the most effective and time saving way of dealing with discipline. The kid learns that violence is an effective way of dealing with disagreement and conflict. The key to successful parenting is not to switch on the love when they do well and deny it when they misbehave. There are no conditions but just a steady flow of affection so that kids feel their parents’ love is truly unconditional.
还有家长认为打孩子可能是最有效的和节省时间的处理纪律方法。孩子学习暴力是一种处理分歧和冲突的有效方式。成功教育的关键不是把打当做爱他们当他们否认表现不好时。没有条件只
是感情的稳定供应,孩子觉得父母的爱是真正的无条件的。
7. Leave funny and affectionate notes and messages.
离开有趣和深情的笔记和消息。
It can be a text or a little note tucked under their pillow. It can be a joke, an affectionate nickname or anything that shows the kids they are still on your radar.
它可以是一个文本或一个小纸条塞在枕头底下。它可以是一个笑话,一个亲切的昵称或任何显示孩子们仍在你的雷达中。
Love and affection are the foundation of happiness. By showing kids this love every single day, we are giving them the greatest gift of all.
爱情和亲情是幸福的基础。每一天通过对孩子展示这种爱,是我们给他们的最好的礼物。
“Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence.” – Aristotle
“幸福是人生的意义和目的,整个人类存在的目标。”——亚里士多德
How did your parents show their love for you? Let us know in the comments.
你的父母是如何展示他们对你的爱的?在评论中让我们知道。