did you favor the “quarrelling day” by the couple?
你赞成夫妻之间设立吵架日吗？
yes, the idea is really excellent.
当然，这个主意太棒了。
men and women have different method of thought. they would react in entirely different way on the same thing sometimes. so it is very evident that the quarrel is inevitable.
男人和女人有不同的思维方式，有时候他们会对同一件事情做出完全不同的反应。所以很明显，争吵是不可避免的。
since the quarrel is inevitable, what shall we do? i think there are two ways to resolve it. one is quarrel at any time when there is different idea between the couple and the other is setup a “quarrelling day” when the couple could quarrel about all the different ideas accumulated within the week. in my opinion, the latter is better. we know that the quarrel springs up all because of failing to control one’s mood. by setting a quarrelling day, we can control our moods consciously, so the quarrel would probably become discussing and even conversation.
既然争吵不可避免，我们怎么办呢？我想无非有两种处理方式：一是想吵就吵、只要不顺意就吵个天翻地覆；另一种方式就是设定吵架日，两个人只能在吵架日才能争吵，平时有什么意见也不能吵起来。我认为、后一种方式比较好。因为我们都知道几乎所有的争吵都是由于情绪失控，通过设定一个吵架日，可以使我们有意识地控制一下自己的情绪，所以争吵可能变成争论甚至是聊天。