It’s the million dollar question with a trillion answers: What do men look for in a mate? Depending on a man’s age, income level, education, needs in life, the answers can vary. But there are common threads that most men will agree on when looking for Ms. Right.
Here are 5 things men look in a mate for besides looks.
1. Her personality is a plus. She needs to make him laugh and carry on an intelligent conversation. She needs to be able to hold her own with his friends and family. She should radiate her confidence and soul through her eyes, smile, and laughter.
2. She makes him feel special. She does little things for him here and there that make him feel sexy and like there’s no other guy in the world. She isn’t necessarily overtly sexy, but flirtation is there on the surface. She’ll praise his accomplishments, hold his hand in public, and play footsies under the table or at the theater. She doesn’t have to be super aggressive, but she lets him know that he’s the one that turns her on.
3. She shows him she cares in small ways. It’s not that he expects a cook and a maid all in one, but when she makes him breakfast in bed or irons his shirt when he’s running late, it shows him how much she cares for him. She wants to do these things and it brings her pleasure to show him she cares. She listens to him and knows what buttons to push to meet his needs. She notices even the small things that he might not think she picks up on.
4. She’s honest, dependable, and trustworthy. She shows up on time. She’s polite to his friends and co-workers. He treats her right, so he wants the same. He wants trust and honesty. In turn, he gives her his undying trust, as well. Open communication and talking keeps the relationship on track and alive.
5. She loves him unconditionally. He can tell by the look in her eyes…the smile on her face…the glow on her skin that he is hers. She accepts him for who he is and all he wants to be. It’s emotional and thrilling knowing you’ve found the one that’s meant for you.
Asides from the chemistry, a guy needs a best friend and someone that makes him feel special when he’s just being himself. So just remember these simple things and before you know it, maybe you will be planning your bridal shower.