effeminate unmanly娇气的
The unmanly man艳女情颠假玉郎
ADJ（形容词） If you describe a boy's or man's behaviour as unmanly, you are critical of the fact that they are behaving in a way that you think is inappropriate for a man. 无男子气概的 [usu v-link ADJ] [表不满]
Your partner can feel the loss as acutely as you, but may feel that it is unmanly to cry.
你的伴侣对失败的感受和你一样强烈，但他可能会觉得哭泣是没有男子气概的。